Posted on Nov 30th, 2008
by
mimi
Grace Carole Rose J......, my grandaughter, my Heart's Delight!
Of course I think she is quite magical. Born at home, delivered by her father with instructions from the 911 operator, she came into the world quietly purring, smiling, with highly visible eyebrows. The midwives & paramedics arrived after her exit and entrance.
She loves to say;
"Do you know my name is Gwace Cawole Wose J.....?
I say, "yes, I know. Do you know mimi's real name is Carole?"
She just looks shocked when I say that. "No, you're mimi!"
Posted on Nov 25th, 2008
by
mimi
The big day was Sunday Nov. 23! This time Liza did not get lost. In fact, she arrived early - a huge grin on her beautiful face. She is like a little doll, so cute and adorable, and sweet, and funny, lovely and loving, and saucy. She has a $$$$million dollar smile as you can tell from all her photos. She had made some fried rice that smelled yummy right at the door, and brought some spring rolls. We got in a little girl talk before Maze arrived.
I hoped he wouldn't get stopped at the border because of the apple pie. He made it from Buffalo to Niagara Falls, Ontario in record time. He was struggling with a big brown bag and a big pie box. Lots of goodies - 2 kinds of fancy sushi, Polish sausages, lucious creamy ice-cream for the pie he had made with his very own hands.
He looked good - all neat and well-groomed - was that his army training? or his Polish mother telling him always wear clean clothes when you go out. He looked fashionable, his daughters had given him some serious talking about matching stuff up. Maze smells really nice - like fresh clean line dried -laundry.
Liza and Tom snapped lots of photos. I am going to ask Santa for a digital camera so I can join in the fun. Why Liza likes to take pics of my bookshelf is a mystery to me, though looking at it right now, it is pretty interesting visually. She took a picture through the screen of my balcony. Both Maze and Liza take interesting photos. Liza and I don't like how we look in any photos. Maze doesn't care how he looks.
We talked about everything - what women talk about with women, yoga, proper breathing (complete breath), pot, sex, what women find physically appealing about men - Liza likes facial hair, I like men with nice hands and forearms. We didn't ask Tom what he liked. He did roll up his sleeves to display his arms and told us some macho stuff about men having to have strong arms. We talked about pot, baking the pie, mentioned Martha, Morningstar and many other different friends on Gaia, pot, gurus, Catholics, Buddhists, pot, sex, Playboy, whether covergril/centerfol Carol Alt's boobs were real - I said" phoney - they're circular", but maze didn't care if they were real or not.
Maze went into the bathroom and said he wasn't going to put the seat up and he was going to pee on the seat. He is such a naughty boy, a real trouble-maker. I warned him (probably his mother and wife have too) not to pee on the seat, and to put the seat down, and don't pee on the rim either or if you do, at least have the decency to get some of the old 3-ply there and wipe up your dribbles. After he left I inspected the complete unit and found he had heeded my warning. Maze makes up stories about me, so I can make up stuff or exaggerate (sp?) what really happened or was said.
I had arranged the medicine cabinet slightly to give it a more casual look just in case he looked in there. He said in his blog that he didn't look, but I don't believe him because he lies about stuff in such an adorable way. If I get to his house ever, I will definitely look in his medicine cabinet, booby-trapped or not.
When I told someone that I had some friends coming to visit me that I had met on-line, they were horrified --"You're going to let STRANGERS into your house!?!?"
With a giant smile on my face, I said "Yep, twice!" Let's make it a Triple Play. Pot.
Posted on Nov 17th, 2008
by
mimi
Life is unfolding and All is Well - ADJUST!
Some assembly required. DO try this at home!
Posted on Nov 16th, 2008
by
mimi
Not much. Not "stuff". It will all end up in the landfill or turn to dust.
impermanence rules!
I am giving "stuff" away daily so I don't have to dust it, wash it, move it, store it, pack it.
I actually had an expensive bar of soap that was 35 years old. I opened it yesterday and used it for my bath. It was Klorane Rosemary and assorted herbs for combination skin. I haven't had combination skin for at least 25 years. It was 1973 when I bought it with my first paycheque after my husband left me. I made $125/week and spent $7.00 for this bar of soap as some big statement of something. I giggle about it now.
The books are going too and the clothes from eras past. Some things I treasured that belonged to my mom and dad, some of my lovely wedding gifts - Moorcroft vase, Japanese tea set, mean nothing to my kids. These are my memories, not theirs.
So my friends who admire anything, get it. This is what my grandmother did. Anything you admired in her house, she would give it to you. I remember going home with a new frying pan, a Wiley Coyote hand puppet, and marshmallow cookies because I made some favourable remark about each thing she showed me.
I am saving myself from clutter and from my children saying, "what was Mom thinking keeping all this old stuff/junk".